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Ayoubâ„¢ ([personal profile] ayoub) wrote2006-08-30 10:48 am
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Is it wiser to ask "why" rather than "how", and why do you think that?

[identity profile] voldelange.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 10:25 am (UTC)(link)
it's best to ask first "why" just to know if something it's worth trying or just a whim you shouldn't waste time on and then "how" to know how to do whatever you decided was worth doing. there's no sense in wasting time on things that are of no use for you ;)

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Better to know why before trying to find out how, at any rate :)

[identity profile] macpurp.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 10:36 am (UTC)(link)
I have learnt it is also sometimes wise not only to ask why,
but also to say NO! not always easy......

why do you ask?

lol

Tina x

haha

[identity profile] wiltinwickwitch.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:03 pm (UTC)(link)
you took the words out of my mouth, hon!
love and blessed be
xxx

Re: haha

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Asking why can give you a reason to say no :)

Why do I ask? Hmmmmmmmm Maybe I'll go into that later :)

[identity profile] kosta-pasta.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 10:46 am (UTC)(link)
lol. just LOL:))...
P.S. wiser to keep silence...you see, I am not wise:)

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

I'd say speaking your mind is a good thing!

[identity profile] kosta-pasta.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:43 pm (UTC)(link)
BAHAHAHA...wise fox you are then with such an answer!:)

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes indeedy!

:D

[identity profile] mighty-rontor.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 11:30 am (UTC)(link)
How do you think that? Kidding.

Maybe. "Why" asks purpose and may clear the fog enough to see if there's a viable goal. "How" asks tactics. I think that "why" has a tendency to precede "how".

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:11 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

Why should always precede How :D

[identity profile] cmerun12.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
Neither question is more important than the other. If you're going to ask "why" and "how", shouldn't you also be asking the rest of the questions: "who", "what", "where", and "when"?

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
As always, the questions are open context :D

I would say "Why" is more important than "How", because often it's the more difficult question to answer...

[identity profile] the-ravyn.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:05 pm (UTC)(link)
The answer is 42. :P

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:22 pm (UTC)(link)
And not 23?

I wonder if you'll get that little reference

[identity profile] the-ravyn.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I have the head cold from hell, I'm lucky if I still get how to use the loo properly! :P

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:39 pm (UTC)(link)
**hugs you**

When you get better :)

yes

[identity profile] new-dawn.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
because "why" will show the reasons why (lol) will show the purpose, the how is just the method and that can vary n its wide but the why must be only one..

Re: yes

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes indeed!

[identity profile] ex-nothingto835.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)
No, because my personal choice to say "how" always makes people laugh because it is SO representative of not only the town, but the AREA of the town which I grew up in. It gives everyone a laugh.
I can't think of a deep answer to that question :D

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 12:34 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

Hey, giving everyone a laugh is a good thing!

[identity profile] infinitywhisper.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 02:36 pm (UTC)(link)
For me the question 'why' tends to make a mess of things.

Why is good for objectives, not so good for human consumption.. .lol. Tends to give one a belly ache. I've found it is better to lead some one with the ANSWER to the question 'why' than to ask it.

Why tends toward abstracts, and the obvious is the general rule of answer - all too often the true answer is dismissed or not seen because it's never truly obvious.

"How". . . heh, isn't it obvious? That one gets me into trouble too.

So for me, neither work overly well. The tend to come from my analytical side. . . which tends to irritate the heck out of most.
And tends to place them on the defensive.

But answering either the why or the how, if I have the answer -

And curiosity of why and how. . . caused the world not to be flat any longer.

They need to hold hands.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 02:39 pm (UTC)(link)
They need to hold hands

I like that!

I've always placed the "why" first, personally... Make sure you know why and why not, before moving on to the how... :)

[identity profile] hypovex.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 02:41 pm (UTC)(link)
There's no clear answer to that question. They are both relative to the person asking and the intended object or goal.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 02:56 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

Very true... You could generalise though...

[identity profile] kabandra.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 04:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, it is wiser to ask why... because that opens up so many more doors into knowledge- it's less a mechanical question than how.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

Well said!

[identity profile] kalquessa.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Error: Your abstract question cannot be processed at this time due to coffee shortage. Please defrag brain, insert coffee and try again.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAA!

[identity profile] childeofloki.livejournal.com 2006-08-30 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't say either is more wise than the other. There is a time and place for both. Asking how something works is often more pragmatic than asking why it does, but that doesn't mean that asking why is futile or less wise.

Just remember what they always say; there are no stupid questions, just stupid people.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-08-31 09:50 am (UTC)(link)
:D

I'd say it depends greatly on the situation...

[identity profile] crescent-fresh.livejournal.com 2006-09-02 07:26 pm (UTC)(link)
it all depends on the situation. different predicaments dictate different questions becoming priorities.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-09-02 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Damn, he's back with a vengeance!

:D

[identity profile] soulview.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
I think you should ask both!

[identity profile] soulview.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
How ... then why. You might not need to ask why if you know how ... you could probably figure it out on your own.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I would have thought the other way round... Only figure out the how if you know the why is worthwhile...

[identity profile] soulview.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 05:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Both ways could work .... I tend to think a bit backwards .... smiles.. it even works for me sometimes!

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL!

Thinking should always be approached from all directions :)

[identity profile] soulview.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Smiles


Thing is ... I can usually see the why before I even ask the how ... it's just how I am. Call it vision, psychic what have ya, I can usually see right inside without needing the why.

Makes sense right? Just nod and humor me please ... smiles.

[identity profile] ayoub.livejournal.com 2006-10-08 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Makes perfect sense :)