i always have faith all will be fine eventually...i get lots of help from the music i listen to and painting,even if sometimes it seems it doesn't help, it does because i can look back and see i've done something :)
What are you talking about? My anchor is everything going crazy. When all is chaos and people are on the edge of panic, I am at my best. When things grow stagnant and stable, that is when I flounder.
Chaos overwhelming Mind, body, and soul The embodiment of purity Destroying Order's heart The black dreams of liquid lightning Eradicate the impure With the corrupt.
When there is a REAL crisis, I generally have a pretty level head. I shut everything else off and go into "let's get through this alive mode". But ... I have a tendency toward the "tempest in a teapot". Bryan is able to give me that perspective, let me step outside myself for a moment and realize that that is all that it really is. He tends to stay calm no matter what. And that lets me know that I am getting all worked up over nothing. Plus, he is the one that remembers to get all the little details taken care of that I'm forgetting about because I am overreacting.
I give myself permission to feel unachored for a moment so it can just pass through and leave. Then it's easy for me to focus on me and my daughter's life and the rest of my friends and family as an anchor.
And then there are moments, I just drop the anchor inside myself and let it find a sturdy hold. Moreless to remind myself of the power I always have within.
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Anchors Away
Also I've got great friends, my faith, my spiritual community and my mom and sister.
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Wonderful to have!
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That works :D
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I feel very unanchored.
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I hope you find an anchor soon...
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kidding! My anchor tends to be reason. I try and sort things out if I have the time.
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Reason and logic are good anchors, as long as the emotions don't take over...
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Hope you had a great weekend, luv.
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If it works :)
It was ok :D
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Great anchors!
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Sarcasm is fun too!
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Both of which are awesome :D
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My anchor is everything going crazy. When all is chaos and people are on the edge of panic, I am at my best.
When things grow stagnant and stable, that is when I flounder.
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Mind, body, and soul
The embodiment of purity
Destroying Order's heart
The black dreams of liquid lightning
Eradicate the impure
With the corrupt.
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When there is a REAL crisis, I generally have a pretty level head. I shut everything else off and go into "let's get through this alive mode". But ... I have a tendency toward the "tempest in a teapot". Bryan is able to give me that perspective, let me step outside myself for a moment and realize that that is all that it really is. He tends to stay calm no matter what. And that lets me know that I am getting all worked up over nothing. Plus, he is the one that remembers to get all the little details taken care of that I'm forgetting about because I am overreacting.
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He's a good guy!
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And then there are moments, I just drop the anchor inside myself and let it find a sturdy hold. Moreless to remind myself of the power I always have within.
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