I always watch their eyes. A confident trustworthy person always makes eye contact when they're talking. If they're fidgety or all over the place- it makes me feel like they have something to hide!
Voices... yes that's important. I once met this guy who was big.. as in muscular. I thought to myself that he'd have a great deeper sounding voice. Oh gods no... he must have been on steriods as he has this tiny squeeky voice. Threw me off completely! Though he was a nice guy :)
It's different with everybody. Sometimes it's the person's hair. Sometimes I notice the mouth. If I'm sitting down, I notice the person's ass, and work my way up....;)
I think I tend to sleepwalk through my life doing my own thing without really noticing many other people. Some call this arrogance. I tend to think of it as obliviousness. It honestly takes a lot to distract me from my own thoughts. When I'm out and about, it's rare for me to ever make eye contact with anyone else on purpose or take notice of other people at all.
What tends to usually call someone to my attention in the first place is something I can't quite put my finger on. It's in the way they carry themselves and in the aura they project out to the rest of the world. When I pick someone out of the crowd, it is because this "aura" is either unusually good or unusually negative.
Once I get around to noticing what they look like, I still stay pretty general. The first thing I notice there is whether or not they seem clean and well-put-together. I also tend to notice hair and hands in particular -- are they clean, well-kept, and cared for, etc. It's far less about what a person has and much more about what they do with it for me.
I usually get a vibe - I don't think I even 'try' to see it or notice it - it just happens and it hits me. I try not to put too much weight in it but I'm usually right so - yeah - it just comes to me what I notice and the 'it' is - as best as I can describe it - a vibe.
I once met this man who gave off a really strong intimidating vibe...
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Date: 2009-03-02 10:41 am (UTC)For myself? Probably Shoulders, chest, and perhaps eyes.
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Date: 2009-03-02 11:18 am (UTC)Although I'm not going to deny that what someone is wearing (or not, in Dave's case, lol) can also have an effect on where my eyes are drawn ;oP
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Date: 2009-03-02 12:10 pm (UTC)The very first thing I notice is
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Date: 2009-03-02 01:24 pm (UTC)1) their energy
2) their voice
3( their strengh (handshake)
That's if I meet them in person. More often than not these days it's their writing.
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Date: 2009-03-02 02:13 pm (UTC)Perhaps I look at eyes, because I've been complimented on mine. *shrugs*
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Date: 2009-03-02 03:39 pm (UTC)like nervous disposition
or
confidant and tall
etc
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Date: 2009-03-02 05:26 pm (UTC)It's different with everybody. Sometimes it's the person's hair. Sometimes I notice the mouth. If I'm sitting down, I notice the person's ass, and work my way up....;)
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Date: 2009-03-02 06:00 pm (UTC)You just made my day :D
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Date: 2009-03-02 06:23 pm (UTC)That the first way I see a connection.
First things I noticed about Lisa.
She smiled at me and her eyes lit up.
Then I noticed her b00bs.
She was wearing a tight blue sweater.
And my eyes may have lit up.
Hey, I'm a healthy heterosexual male and at the time I was 20 years old. I was young and full of testosterone.
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Date: 2009-03-02 06:41 pm (UTC)Girls: boobs and/or ass (no, i'm not kidding)
♥
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Date: 2009-03-02 08:15 pm (UTC)What tends to usually call someone to my attention in the first place is something I can't quite put my finger on. It's in the way they carry themselves and in the aura they project out to the rest of the world. When I pick someone out of the crowd, it is because this "aura" is either unusually good or unusually negative.
Once I get around to noticing what they look like, I still stay pretty general. The first thing I notice there is whether or not they seem clean and well-put-together. I also tend to notice hair and hands in particular -- are they clean, well-kept, and cared for, etc. It's far less about what a person has and much more about what they do with it for me.
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Date: 2009-03-04 05:12 am (UTC)I once met this man who gave off a really strong intimidating vibe...
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