If I don't know they exist, then I don't know them. end of story. Can't expect everyone to like me and honestly, I wouldn't give a damn even if I did know them. It's their problem, not mine.
I would try to find out way in case I did something assholeish to them or maybe was misunderstood. If it was for something silly I would leave and get over it. Not everyone will like me.
Ignore it.... first off they mean nothing to you. Secondly, People that dont get to know you and decide you are an enemy without that knowledge are just plain ignorant. Personally I feel better off without people like that anyway. hugs
The same thing I do whenever I have that problem, and sadly I have had this happen after high school: You hold your head up, you keep going, and when they reveal themselves - no mercy. If they make the first move and declare war, you are in your rights for self-defense. And if they don't make a move at all? Bonus!
be curious about it... clearly I impacted that person unintentionally - as I have more than enough 'enemies' that I am aware of... I've learned that the only person who doesn't have enemies is someone who is so boring that it's hard to believe s/he exists.
It wouldn't bother me. I had an enemy for a while (maybe I still do but I don't care), her title is ex hubby's wife ... I learned that being yourself is the best thing to be even with an enemy.
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Date: 2006-12-01 11:42 am (UTC)thanks:)
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Date: 2006-12-01 12:22 pm (UTC)I would certainly hire a wine and food taster. **giggles**
I would know them, understand them, and watch them carefully.
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Date: 2006-12-01 01:03 pm (UTC)how whould you know they count you as an enemy if you don't know they exist?
love and blessed be
xxx
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Date: 2006-12-01 05:59 pm (UTC)However, if I did know about them, but I don't know them, I'd react with a savagery that outshines the gods of Old.
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Date: 2006-12-01 10:44 pm (UTC)O.o
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Date: 2006-12-05 11:06 am (UTC)Definitely a case of watching your back... :)
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Date: 2006-12-05 12:28 pm (UTC)I'd be curious, though... as to why...
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Date: 2006-12-05 03:36 pm (UTC)I'd still watch my back a bit...
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Date: 2006-12-06 09:05 am (UTC)It's good to understand why...
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Date: 2006-12-06 09:22 am (UTC)Excellent answer... and it's a shame that these things sometimes have to be dealt with many many years after high school!
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Date: 2006-12-06 09:36 am (UTC)A powerful point of view, as always :)
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Date: 2006-12-06 01:03 pm (UTC)Nevermind that you've just changed the parameters of the question - now you know they exist.
well
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