Question of the Day

[ayoub]

What decisions are hard for you to make?

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None... I'm pretty decisive :D

Comments

[bia22.livejournal.com]

i think I've figured out who i am so on the important things in life, i generally dont struggle making decisions but when it comes to "what will i wear today?" or "what should we eat tonight?" - i'm bloody useless! lol

[katamphigorical.livejournal.com]

I'm horribly indecisive when it concerns my future.

I am, perhaps, too aware of the phrase "limitless possibilities" and simply too terrified that by doing one thing i'm completely closing off the avenue to something else.

I don't like being without choices. It makes me feel helpless. Yet that's where i usually end up is without choices. So i must be doing something wrong. :(

[bronxelf-ag001.livejournal.com]

50% of all decisions turn out to be wrong. So, for the most part what gets decided is irrelevant, and therefore decisions are easy.

Hard decisions are generally about the cats- because they can't tell me what they think.

[alainn-mactire.livejournal.com]

Ironically, it's the small stuff...

...in one phone call, I decided to change my life, accept the offer of a room and move to Scotland, yet if Dave asks me what I want to watch tonight it can take hours to decide or he just gets a "I dunno...".

*facepalm*

[amante-donne.livejournal.com]

when I am moving into "new territory" i sometimes am indesisive.

[cerebralpig.livejournal.com]

Snap decisions are as good as any. Your first impulse is usually the one you should go with. Do I practice what I preach? Ha! You must be joking.

[beatzz.livejournal.com]

I find it hard to figure out when I'm going to do stuff, even when I know for sure what I want to do... I'm total pants at schedules and time management...

[1jodie.livejournal.com]

i have to make big decisions in my job all the time. and i've made some pretty big life decisions. where i'm less accomplished is making smaller decisions, like what do i want to wear today or what restaurant should my friends and i go to.

[indigobluejelly.livejournal.com]

I too am very decisive. I also have to make snap decisions all the time.

Now, if you're talking about my decision on what to wear in the morning to work, hah. Thats useless. Now I lay clothing out before bed so I dont keep running back and forth to the closet.

[corporatebeach.livejournal.com]

If I'm going to get out of bed when that alarm rings or call in sick for the day.

[castlelady.livejournal.com]

Since I'm the one in this family who has to make each and every decision, I'm not thinking about which ones are harder to make than others, but instead I have to consider how each decision is going to effect us; especially in the long run.

[the-ravyn.livejournal.com]

In some rare instances, it's when to hold on and when to let go.

[chiropteraclan.livejournal.com]

My process seems to be more difficult than most people's processes. It's not that the decisions are hard to make...and I'm talking about big life decisions here. I just take a long time to commit to a course. Once I do, I am solidly committed. But it does take me some time to get to that point.

[milagro75.livejournal.com]

Most often when it involves my head vs my heart.

[moonlights-lair.livejournal.com]

*smile*

Seems like every decision I have to make these days is a killer.

That should ease soon as I am used to being rather decisive myself.

btw...*hug* (just cuz you are so damn cute Ayoub)

M.L.

[donnickcottage.livejournal.com]

The one about whether to be funny or serious when I'm answering your qotds.

[f-l-i-r-t.livejournal.com]

you are such a cheeky boy! I like that... you always bring a smile to my face, even when you are being serious. *hugs* just had to let you know.

[donnickcottage.livejournal.com]

I'm glad you find me amusing. I'm not everyone's cup of tea lol. Thanks:)

[innerly.livejournal.com]

the ones that are going to affect other people, people i care about...

[elysiankitten.livejournal.com]

ALL OF THEM. Seriously. I'm a wretched decision maker. I pray that this changes when I grow up :(

[dishapeaches.livejournal.com]

Who to cut when I trim down my f-list soon, lol!

[donor4him.livejournal.com]

Where to go out to eat!

[rowanchey.livejournal.com]

Almost all of them. I hate making big decisions, especially. And I change my mind too often.

[beloved-juno.livejournal.com]

It's probably hardest for me to decide to cut another person out of my life, although I am able to do that when and if I have to. Even if I know someone's presence in my life is doing me more harm than good, the Pisces in me always wants to give them the benefit of the doubt and an opportunity to do better in the future.

[sm00bs.livejournal.com]

I'm a Libra, if that says anything. ;)

Even for this question, it's difficult for me to answer... because I think ALL decisions are hard!

There are times I can make up my mind, but it's rare. ;)

[fox-bard.livejournal.com]

Decisions regarding other blocking people from my life when they are too consumed by their own fucktard gravity (and do not appear to be prepared to leave it anytime this century). A part of me is full of stupid nobility and still wants to help, even when that person has turned into poison.

Caveat: This is hard until they piss me off successively one time too many. Then pulling the plug is easy.

[the-ravyn.livejournal.com]

You and I are on the same wavelength with our responses to this QOTD.  You put it so much more eloquently, though. :)

[o-annie-o.livejournal.com]

Decisions that will not only affect myself but also other people. Especially when there´s something I REALLY would have to do for my own good, but I know it would affect another person in a not so positive way. I´m fighting with myself then.

Oh, and to decide small things is pretty hard for me. For example choosing the meal when we´re out for dinner. LOL.

[hippie-geisha.livejournal.com]

Ones that, based on what I decide, will hurt somebody deeply.

[spritegirltn.livejournal.com]

ummm...all decisions pretty much are hard for me..of course I like to say I am decisive I just decisively change my mind quite often :P

[fire-fox01.livejournal.com]

When they effect (affect? I dunno, whatever, fuck it) more people than just me it takes me a lot more time to make it.

[kingdavey.livejournal.com]

Any! I can't be bothered making any decision. It's too much effort

[heardthatnoise.livejournal.com]

I'm also pretty decisive about everything except what to eat when I go out to dinner. I'm always the last one to order!

[lipzofs0rr0w.livejournal.com]

when to let go.

[empatia.livejournal.com]

Holding on and letting go, weather it's people, or just things I have a hard time letting go of people no matter how draining the relationship is on me, with things they remind me of people, my past...I have a hard time moveing past my past. And of course what to make for supper :P

[eternalxwhisper.livejournal.com]

It depends what type of mood I'm in. It can be from the really small stuff like deciding what to make for dinner or what to watch to the big things "Can we make it as a couple when we move in together, are we ready to have children."

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

You guys seem fairly solid, from what you've told me :D

[eternalxwhisper.livejournal.com]

James can be a little squishy when I poke him... Oh! Not that kind of solid ;] Yeah, we've been together 5years now I think we've grown up a lot.