Though I might not like certain contexts at the time, probably the best ones have to do with being true to myself and being happy with myself before I can be happy with someone else.
I think that if a half-truth comes from someone who honestly cares, then it's a burden on them and isn't necessarily a bad thing. If it's used with ill intent, then I agree. See, lies & half-lies are never just black and white for me.
My mom told me, "Be like Renato. Even if someone makes fun of him, if it's a good joke, he just laaaaaughs..." She told me that in 5th grade because she knew that the rich snobby kids would always make fun of me.
That was the first turning point in my life, forever changing my destiny. I actually made friends with those same kids. If not for me "getting" that, I do believe that I would be a miserable, bitter, unjustifiably self-centered, shallow, common garden variety asshole of a human being. I think that a piece of advice like that can make a child a better person for himself in life if not for others around him. I'm going to instill that on my kids, and see if I can't make things nicer for the world.
I've been steadily throwing them up on new_wisdom.
One on one - I usually give better advice than I take. But usually no one is doing the kind of crap that I am, and so they really can't do anything to help, words of wisdom or otherwise.
"The two most important things you can do in life are breathing & blinking. Remember that the next time your stressing out about life, the universe & Everything."
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Date: 2008-07-03 11:25 am (UTC)Good one! :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 10:33 am (UTC)Sadly, this is the standard form of communication that I've been hearing lately.
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Date: 2008-07-03 10:41 am (UTC)Even more than once. Unfortunately I didn´t listen to my Dad.
:-p
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Date: 2008-07-03 11:30 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-07-03 11:13 am (UTC)That was the first turning point in my life, forever changing my destiny. I actually made friends with those same kids. If not for me "getting" that, I do believe that I would be a miserable, bitter, unjustifiably self-centered, shallow, common garden variety asshole of a human being. I think that a piece of advice like that can make a child a better person for himself in life if not for others around him. I'm going to instill that on my kids, and see if I can't make things nicer for the world.
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Date: 2008-07-03 12:12 pm (UTC)The best piece of advice, ever: "You can have everything you want. Just not at the same time."
Words to live by.
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Date: 2008-07-03 12:13 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2008-07-03 12:30 pm (UTC)It was a reminder to myself that the past is what made me the future IS me. I need to look ahead and stop living for what used to be.
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Date: 2008-07-03 12:46 pm (UTC)Wonderful...
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Date: 2008-07-03 01:37 pm (UTC)Yep, that's a keeper LMAO!
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Date: 2008-07-03 02:15 pm (UTC)Works :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 01:50 pm (UTC)One on one - I usually give better advice than I take. But usually no one is doing the kind of crap that I am, and so they really can't do anything to help, words of wisdom or otherwise.
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Date: 2008-07-03 02:16 pm (UTC)Very true... And you're exceptional at providing the right bit of advice...
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Date: 2008-07-03 02:17 pm (UTC):D
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Date: 2008-07-03 02:24 pm (UTC)Re: *winks*
Date: 2008-07-03 02:26 pm (UTC)Works :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 03:28 pm (UTC)All good!
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Date: 2008-07-03 03:28 pm (UTC)Be here and now.
Explore the world with your senses wide open.
Just say no.
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Date: 2008-07-03 03:29 pm (UTC)I love the third one :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 04:53 pm (UTC)Excellent... :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 05:18 pm (UTC)You wouldn't want anyone to think you were dirty, would you?
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Date: 2008-07-03 05:51 pm (UTC)Excellent :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 05:50 pm (UTC)And if you can't be good...be careful.
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Date: 2008-07-03 05:51 pm (UTC)Love it!
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Date: 2008-07-03 06:01 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-07-03 06:11 pm (UTC)My mother, the wise one, once told me:
Date: 2008-07-03 06:24 pm (UTC)*ahem*
That was her sage wisdom about men. And funny enough, it's true!
The really good one that isn't so vulgar was "The best way to predict your future is to create it."
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Date: 2008-07-03 06:39 pm (UTC)Good ones! :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 06:42 pm (UTC)Don't eat the green wobbly bit.
Learn to cook properly.
I'm going to go and do my washing up and then make fairy cakes. :D
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Date: 2008-07-03 07:15 pm (UTC):D
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Date: 2008-07-03 11:40 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-07-04 07:43 pm (UTC)Nice :D