i can totally relate to that and i think the best way to get through anything is to give yourself breathing room and support. Only time can work some shit out.
The self-sabotage is the worst part. I think I can work through the other stuff, like you said, with time and breathing room. But how to stop undercutting myself? That I just don't know. :(
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Date: 2009-02-10 12:01 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-02-10 12:05 am (UTC)The self-sabotage is the worst part. I think I can work through the other stuff, like you said, with time and breathing room. But how to stop undercutting myself? That I just don't know. :(