well there's very little I would do for it in the first place. By the same token there's very little I wouldn't do either, given the right set of circumstances.
#1. I don't and WON'T compromise who I am. You tell me you love me, then you love ALL of me - the good AND the bad. I'm not saying you have to like all of it; I'm a complete and whole package. Period.
Kids are number one. I won't do anything to hurt them. Pretty much everything you said, except the kill part. If someone die something horrible to mine, I would seek revenge. I mean, as in nearly kill, etc. My romantic love is my family by extension, so my protection rules cover them too.
Hmmm... there are very few things i would not do for Jimmy, now that i have him. But before that i would not do things that would damage my integrity... i would not hurt others to get to romantic love (at least not intentionally).
As Meatloaf says "I'd do anything for love .. but I won't do that" ... for values of that which approach becoming or pretending to be something I am not.
So basically I agree with everyone so far.
I will not give up my female friends .. as donnickcottage says been there done that and they are part of who I am. I also won't play the "I want you to want to do dishes" game ... why do people have to want to remake someone they claim to love? I will willingly do dishes because they need doing and I believe in sharing the drudge work, but I will never enjoy or want to do them. I will never be a household appliance again.
If someone had a knife or gun aimed at your 'love' and was about to kill them... you wouldn't kill to stop them? Seriously? I am not sure that human nature could stop, I guess it is fight or flight, you would fight back or escape. Interesting...
I took the question to be .. "to gain romantic love" anyone looking to harm someone I care about or who is under my care had best STFB because i will do my damnedest to stop them and me concerned with the effects to them later.
1. I will not give up my child for anyone. (ex husband thought I should let my parents raise my child because he didn't want kids. He should've thought of that before getting into a relationship with me...She's from a previous relationship) 2. sit by and watch him treat my daughter like crap and get away with it. Another thing the ex did and I left him. 3. choose between my child and him. She will always win. 4. give up my independence. I might compromise on some things but I'm not about to give up who I am. It's all a package deal.
My daughter and I are a package deal. As they say, one of the most dangerous places to be is between a mother and her child.
The list is long... probably longer than what I would do for love.
I'm content on my own. I'm happy and pretty much fulfilled at this point in my life. If love happens, it will just be a bonus. I'm not looking for it, or pining away for it.
Change who I am on a core level. Becoming a different person to make someone else happy is something I absolutely will not do. I also will not give up anything that means a lot to me -- my career, my friends, or my family.
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Date: 2009-02-26 02:15 pm (UTC)Actually... give up all other opposite gender relationships. Done that. Won't again.
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Date: 2009-02-26 02:40 pm (UTC)Exactly how i feel! Jimmy (my husband) IS my "family" and i'm highly protective of my family.
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Date: 2009-02-26 02:49 pm (UTC)So basically I agree with everyone so far.
I will not give up my female friends .. as
I also won't play the "I want you to want to do dishes" game ... why do people have to want to remake someone they claim to love?
I will willingly do dishes because they need doing and I believe in sharing the drudge work, but I will never enjoy or want to do them.
I will never be a household appliance again.
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Date: 2009-02-26 03:29 pm (UTC)anyone looking to harm someone I care about or who is under my care had best STFB because i will do my damnedest to stop them and me concerned with the effects to them later.
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Date: 2009-02-26 03:27 pm (UTC)2. sit by and watch him treat my daughter like crap and get away with it. Another thing the ex did and I left him.
3. choose between my child and him. She will always win.
4. give up my independence. I might compromise on some things but I'm not about to give up who I am. It's all a package deal.
My daughter and I are a package deal. As they say, one of the most dangerous places to be is between a mother and her child.
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Date: 2009-02-26 03:34 pm (UTC)I'm content on my own. I'm happy and pretty much fulfilled at this point in my life. If love happens, it will just be a bonus. I'm not looking for it, or pining away for it.
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