I usually invite it over for tea, you know, like I like it and we're gonna have a nice day chatting about stuff... then I wait 'till I see it admiring itself in my hallway mirror... and then I shoot it dead.
I internalize it. Let it eat me alive till it's over. Then explode or forget about it... whichever is first. Not healthy. Prob not safe. Def my way tho! haha
It really depends on the stress and close I am to a deadline. And how organized I am as well. The more scattered I am, the more emotional I am likely to be, which is rarely helpful. I try to be as analytical, with check-lists and timelines even, as possible.
If it's really bad I get panic attacks sometimes and hope the xanex helps. But other than that I try to workout as much as possible and push myself hard, that helps - not just some wimpy workout like a walk or something although if a walk is the only thing possible it helps especially in fresh air. Also as the other person said, I constantly listen to music, it keeps my brain active and focused. I talk to friends and family about issues, write in LJ, update my Facebook status, I try to keep myself busy and my mind focused on something else or the task at hand. I find making lists extremely helpful as I tend to have a ton of things I want to get done but then again lately I can't seem to get much done on the list...
It takes A LOT to get me stressed. But when it happens, I just make sure to stay focused and working towards my goal. There's no point in stressing over something you can do nothing about.
I try to sort it out as quickly as I can so I don't have to deal with it longer than I essentially must. Stress makes me angry. I don't like me when I'm truly angry (as opposed to my normally disgruntled self). Neither does anyone else.
I analyze. No, I OVER analyze which creates more stress. However, I believe that if I look at all issues from various angles, I am more equiped to deal with whatever the issue is.
Oh wait! First I freak, then I analyze, depending on the source that is creating the stress.
So, there are others who do the same. Good news for me as I am weary of those who point this out to me, consistantly.
However, in a work situation, I am able to pull it together. I believe this has more to do with me feeling threatened about a "insert something here on a personal level" more than anything.
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Date: 2009-03-10 01:20 pm (UTC)Not healthy. Prob not safe. Def my way tho! haha
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Date: 2009-03-10 03:03 pm (UTC)And then? Im fine.
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Date: 2009-03-10 03:21 pm (UTC)I box,
I rant,
and if I have an accomplice, I have sex. ;)
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Date: 2009-03-10 03:57 pm (UTC)Sometimes I lean heavily on my wife and with the intense sharing comes *cough*.
Sometimes I vent to friends.
Sometimes I internalize until I explode.
Sometimes I have health issues (lack of sleep, etc.)
If there is a way to deal...I deal.
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Date: 2009-03-11 12:50 am (UTC)The un-healthy way: eat stuff that's bad for me
The healthy way: go to the gym and work my ASS off
I am working to make the "healthy way" my default way to deal with stress.
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Date: 2009-03-11 12:32 pm (UTC)I analyze. No, I OVER analyze which creates more stress. However, I believe that if I look at all issues from various angles, I am more equiped to deal with whatever the issue is.
Oh wait! First I freak, then I analyze, depending on the source that is creating the stress.
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Date: 2009-03-11 09:30 pm (UTC)If its not horrible, I get kind of wooden.
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Date: 2009-03-11 09:33 pm (UTC)Forgive my late reply
Date: 2009-03-16 12:31 pm (UTC)However, in a work situation, I am able to pull it together. I believe this has more to do with me feeling threatened about a "insert something here on a personal level" more than anything.