It is hard to find a guy who will either do it or not treat you like dirt in the process though. It should be about control, but a dom should care for his sub, not just use it as someone to beat and make himself feel better. It can be a wonderful extension of a relationship. You just have to find who you fit with. Then you also have the guys it freaks out.
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Date: 2006-01-27 07:04 pm (UTC)Then you also have the guys it freaks out.
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Date: 2006-01-27 07:18 pm (UTC)Give and take is more my thing...
Give first, then take :D