Well, usually with brute strength. And if that doesn't work I try to revel in the darkness and, in revelling, revel my way right back out again. I don't know if that makes sense to you, and to tell the truth I'm not sure I'd recommend this approach for others. But it usually works for me. ;)
When i was years ago, i just slept. Now when i feel im headed in that direction i simply put on the new age tunes, burn the champa and lay in bed and relax. *hugs*
I don't know that I do deal with it. Rather, I don't deal with it well. I, like [Bad username or site: pan 16 @ livejournal.com], tend to shove my way through it. As I said yesterday, I "act as if" I am not bothered.. and it either helps me not be or gets me through to the next day when I'm not so bad off. That's the one thing I think that helps me the most. I am aware of how fleeting it is. I guess that either means I am good at dealing with it.. or that I am manic. Either way... its usually only a short while.
(And please don't get me wrong.. I am not saying "act as if" means not to feel it.. I can't hide from that!)
hmm dare I say a little bit of LJ goes a long way.
I remember little bits I learnt in therapy to be able to self-therapize (hehe i made that word up I think) like ABC (Action Behaviour Consequences) which deals with the what when why and what ifs of why im feeling that way and by the time you've overanalyzed the bloody thing its pretty much sort itself out. That and I remember that I've survived some pretty awful moments in the past, that thought empowers me.
I have the true luxury of being smart and not suffering true clinical depression; but on those occasions that I feel a dark pall veiling my world, I take solace in that it is temporary and must ultimately pass. I also try to find means of stepping out of my head somehow by letting myself get distracted. At the very least, I try and argue with myself over it.
Long quiet walks in the woods alone talking to the Higher Being(s) (Take your pick, I'm not picky) and working my way through it. (Going back to your question of omens, it was one of these times when "talking to" could be replaced with "yelling at" that a good friend for the first, last, and only time called me to just toss around a frisbee and it turned out to be just what I needed. Strange, eh?)
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Date: 2006-03-21 10:57 am (UTC)(And please don't get me wrong.. I am not saying "act as if" means not to feel it.. I can't hide from that!)
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Date: 2006-03-21 11:23 am (UTC)Chopping off my hair lol
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Date: 2006-03-21 11:35 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-03-21 11:50 am (UTC)I remember little bits I learnt in therapy to be able to self-therapize (hehe i made that word up I think) like ABC (Action Behaviour Consequences) which deals with the what when why and what ifs of why im feeling that way and by the time you've overanalyzed the bloody thing its pretty much sort itself out.
That and I remember that I've survived some pretty awful moments in the past, that thought empowers me.
And if all else goes astray...
CHOCOLATE!!!
*big hugs*
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Date: 2006-03-21 12:30 pm (UTC)I understand though :)
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Date: 2006-03-21 12:31 pm (UTC)I don't have much to chop off though! :P
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Date: 2006-03-21 12:32 pm (UTC)Excellent one Dave!
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Date: 2006-03-21 12:32 pm (UTC)Chocolate!
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Date: 2006-03-21 12:43 pm (UTC)to smell that champa burning. i dream of
smelling it everywhere in india-LOL
*hugs*
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