Question of the Day

[ayoub]

Do you find yourself making the same mistakes over and over again?

Comments

[voldelange.livejournal.com]

yes i do...unfortunately...but at one point i learn not to do them...but others come up...from mistaking we learn and mistakes we keep on making...:(...it's truly depressing when they repeat...i made the mistake of forgiving someone that wasn't worth it too many times and now i tend not to forgive which is a mistake too...that i keep making...and i guess i will till it's gonna be too late and then i'm gonna try to find a middle way between forgiving and not forgiving...dunno...there are many other examples anyway...making mistakes it's part of being human...*sighs*

[kosta-pasta.livejournal.com]

it's a secret:)))...an embarassing one:))

[new-dawn.livejournal.com]

at times yes, which some stuff anyways, but the more i fail the more i try to kick it, cos it makes me upset n angry to do so..

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Forgiving doesn't have to mean letting a person back... Sometimes it means letting them go...

*hugs*

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Now I'm intrigued!

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Yeah, sometimes it's hard to kick it!

[kosta-pasta.livejournal.com]

good:)

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:P

Email me the secret!

[voldelange.livejournal.com]

i know...i mean forgive like letting them back ...you know...some might worth to be let back,but it's hard for me to let them...plus i don't think that if you don't let someone back you truly forgive him/her...

*hugs back*

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

You can forgive a person their actions, but that doesn't mean you have to put yourself at risk of the same actions until you think they won't repeat them...

[evergladesqueen.livejournal.com]

oh hell no.
lessons learned, some the hard way
and i dont go back.
*hugs*

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

You're a strong lady :D

[voldelange.livejournal.com]

it feels right what you say...but i can't say i forgive someone if i don't believe that someone won't repeat that mistake...i can only get at a point where i can say i'm indifferent to that person and what happened because i got over it,but this doesn't mean to me i forgive that person...

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Indifference is a good way to deal with them :)

[voldelange.livejournal.com]

it is...:)...and it inevitably comes sooner or later...and takes everything that was with it...*soft smile*

[kosta-pasta.livejournal.com]

naaahhhh....would it be a secret then?:)))))
hehehe:)

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Well, I wouldn't tell anyone! ;)

[kosta-pasta.livejournal.com]

Well, I know. But this is the way to keep one being intrigued, isn't it?:)) And if the secret is for two then it's not...I wish you knew someone I know to tell my secrets, BTW:))))This way I would be under the danger of a released secret:)))))lol

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

LOL!

You're teasing me!

[kosta-pasta.livejournal.com]

Yay! you are extremely observant!:)))
(j/k)

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA

:D

[kosta-pasta.livejournal.com]

I am half deaf now...Shhh

[fire-fox01.livejournal.com]

Yes sometimes I do. Sometimes I have to make the mistake 50 times before I learn a different way to approach it.

But most of the times I at least improve after the first mistake. I do learn eventually. ;)

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

ROFLMAO (quietly) :P

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

Sometimes, you don't know you've made the same mistake again until you've made it already... :)