yes i do...unfortunately...but at one point i learn not to do them...but others come up...from mistaking we learn and mistakes we keep on making...:(...it's truly depressing when they repeat...i made the mistake of forgiving someone that wasn't worth it too many times and now i tend not to forgive which is a mistake too...that i keep making...and i guess i will till it's gonna be too late and then i'm gonna try to find a middle way between forgiving and not forgiving...dunno...there are many other examples anyway...making mistakes it's part of being human...*sighs*
i know...i mean forgive like letting them back ...you know...some might worth to be let back,but it's hard for me to let them...plus i don't think that if you don't let someone back you truly forgive him/her...
You can forgive a person their actions, but that doesn't mean you have to put yourself at risk of the same actions until you think they won't repeat them...
it feels right what you say...but i can't say i forgive someone if i don't believe that someone won't repeat that mistake...i can only get at a point where i can say i'm indifferent to that person and what happened because i got over it,but this doesn't mean to me i forgive that person...
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