Question of the Day

[ayoub]

What does it take to date you?

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Today's question inspired by indigobluejelly :D

Comments

[milagro75.livejournal.com]

Apparently too much for most people's tastes. :P

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Awwwww :(

[spacedlaw.livejournal.com]

No idea...
I think a lot of persistence, but you are really asking the wrong person.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

I guess one guy got it right :D

[heardthatnoise.livejournal.com]

I can't even seriously answer this question right now. Sorry.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

*hugs you*

[mighty-rontor.livejournal.com]

A high tolerance for quirky behavior and inappropriate humor.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

Cool!

[indigobluejelly.livejournal.com]

I'll answer this in my journal ok?

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Cool :D

[erva-doce.livejournal.com]

a person has to show interest in either reading or movies...but different kinds of reading and movies...not just main stream. if a person can carry on a decent, intellectual convo about either of those i'm usually hooked. i don't like people who carry on in a snob like manner...but simply someone who's able to make a beautiful, intelligent sentence about it all. :D

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

I like that, too!

[mybeautifulwars]

Getting my husband's permission, I guess. :-p

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

LMAO!

Although, I doubt he'd give permission... ;)

[chiropteraclan.livejournal.com]

Uhm.....well being asked out is a good place to start....

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

They'll be queuing up... :D

[mai-ling.livejournal.com]

that's a loaded question!

as i have yet to write up about
the magician i went on a date with.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Looking forward to the write up!

And I hope he had a few tricks up his sleeve...

I know, bad joke, but I couldn't resist!

[melissa-maples.livejournal.com]

You know what, I don't think I've ever been on a date-date, or even been asked on a date. Usually I meet people wherever I work or go to school, and stuff develops from there, but usually it's just like hanging out more and more often, until finally we give up and move in together. I'm not much on being wined and dined, I prefer things to be more casual.

As for what it takes to be my boyfriend/girlfriend... basically I'm open to anyone who isn't an obvious fucktard. I've been romantically involved with people from all walks of life; there is no particular formula or type.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

I like that approach... But a little romance can be fun :D

[jadecat.livejournal.com]

*grins* At this point the person's lj name has to be lazycatsteve :)

Prior to being married, I would have answer thusly:
Must:
like animals (specifically cats)
be smart!
sarcastic
silly
aware of the larger world around us
make me laugh
in turn laugh at my jokes. ;)

For a start. *laughs*

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

Cool! :D

[1jodie.livejournal.com]

for someone to be as equally as independent as me and to understand that i do get busy with work and i also value my friends and want to spend time with them.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Ditto!

[flutterbychild.livejournal.com]

The short-list: patient, persistent, intelligent, affectionate...for starters.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Good list!

[xjenavivex.livejournal.com]

carbon

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

LMAO!

[1-rhiannon-1.livejournal.com]

Oh, I pity the poor sucker that even attempts to try to date me at this point.

[popfiend.livejournal.com]

Why?

Because his incredible luck will cause him to die from the joy?

[the-ravyn.livejournal.com]

Well...I'd have to be single for starters...

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Well, there is that... :P

[popfiend.livejournal.com]

1.) Me being single. :)

2.) Compassion, patience, intelligence, humor.

3.) A nice booty doesn't hurt either. :)

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

3...

Very true!

[empatia.livejournal.com]

Some one who is goofy, and smiles a lot. He has to be able to put up with my quirkyness and have the same religious interests, only because I need someone who understands how important odd things are to me lol. :)

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

I like that... :D

[photodiva02.livejournal.com]

Are you a felon? Are you jobless? Are you a loser? Are you just plain weird? Those are the only types attracted to me.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

I'm proudly just plain weird!

*snuggles*

[fox-bard.livejournal.com]

Interest, genuine flattery and pursuit. I'm true to my vulpine nature. I love to be chased. Especially by women.

High-born hunting girls... ^____^


Obligatory P.S.: This applies in person when I'm single. Online flirting? Game on, every day of the week.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Online flirting, yup, I agree...

Women who chase are so much fun, though... :D

[hippie-geisha.livejournal.com]

Assuming that I'm free to date, which I'm not, but if I were:

Must be reasonably intelligent. You don't have to be a member of Mensa, just well spoken and able to read books without pictures.

Must be able to have an intelligent conversation and be able to back up your opinions. Also, not freak out if there happens to be a :60 lull in the conversation.

Must be able to enjoy comfortable silences. Sometimes there just aren't any words, and that's OK.

Don't try to change me.

Don't take life or yourself too seriously.

Find beauty and humor in everything.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

Good criteria! :D

[shadowwolf13]

Honesty, integrity, hope, geekiness, wit, intelligence, daring, maturity, respect, consideration, understanding.

I want somebody who can hold a conversation with me and make me think, somebody who is willing to think on their own, somebody who is willing to meet in the middle.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Well said!

[innerly.livejournal.com]

travel back in time to when i was single :P

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

I must perfect that time machine!

[louenn.livejournal.com]

Be attentive but not over-attentive
Don't push, but don't be afraid to take the initiative occasionally
Accept that I have a strange sense of humour
Talk to me, and I've got to be able to talk to you
Buy flowers occasionally, or chocolates, or wine, but also to expect the same and not be surprised when I do so.
Be aware that there are times when I might try to run and hide and that you've just got to be patient and ride it out.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

:D

I like that... :D

[smwright.livejournal.com]

*laughs* Really?

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

Really really!

:D