See, this is why I take issue with the idea of soul mates: the idea of a "perfect love" is a very dangerous mentality to strive for. If you believe in a perfect love or that there is only one person you are meant to be with, if your relationship doesn't amount to that you'll feel cheated, and even if the relationship is great, if it's missing something, you may leave it, hoping to find your soul mate, who may or may not exist. Women will leave great guys (or not even date them to begin with) because they aren't living up to some fantasy relationship they have built up in their heads. I believe that there are only a certain number of people that we are all truly compatible with, and I'm not saying that women (or men) should just settle for whoever is available, but don't limit yourself to the danger of only one person being "right" for you.
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