A friend would be one who offers to help when help is needed, rather than hopes they won't be asked, calls because they enjoy your company, tells you when you've stepped over a line or if they notice a change in your behavior. A friend has some idea of who you are, and has developed their notions out of interest, not necessity. My friend would be true to their word, show up when scheduled, give willingly and receive graciously. My friend cares about me not only in relation to how my happiness will affect their relationship with me, but because I am worth thier attentions, or love as it were.
I'd bore you to tears if I kept going, but let's say a friend is someone who, when they ask "how are you", actually want an answer, good or bad, long or short.
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Date: 2006-12-22 04:53 pm (UTC)I'd bore you to tears if I kept going, but let's say a friend is someone who, when they ask "how are you", actually want an answer, good or bad, long or short.