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ayoubI hate it.
I distance myself from people who produce it, prolong it, and people who butt into it.
I see no pleasure in it, and I see no point to it.
Note that all things in my journal are my opinion, speak if you will, and I am always open enough to listen without prejudice as long as you speak calmly.
If I ever have a problem with what someone has done, I will talk to the person directly, that is my way. I keep it out of public eyes, because if it is out in the open, you never know when somebody is going to wade in with their tuppence worth, and in their misplaced zeal, inflame tensions beyond breaking point.
There are two types of people I refuse to read on my list, the first type is the one who will air a personal issue in a public community. If you have a grievance, put it in your own journal, rather than initiate drama in an inappropriate place. People who do that will be de-friended very damn quickly, because it is the action of a drama seeker.
The second type is the one who believes their way is the only way, and will use any tactics to get the world to follow. They are people who have their minds set, and despite being told they are wrong, with proof, will not admit their mistake. The Zealot too blinded and blinkered by their own belief that the come off as superior and feel it their right to point out any perceived failure in another.
I discovered both types today, and I bade them farewell.
I also defend those who are dearest to me, and while I don't choose between friends often, there are some times when I am offered a no-brainer of a decision and I take it.
And sometimes, you just have to say "Enough"
And yes, I am very hypocritical at times, all people are, to some extent. We have a heart and a mind, and sometimes, the choice you make with your heart is different from the choice you would have made with your mind...
I distance myself from people who produce it, prolong it, and people who butt into it.
I see no pleasure in it, and I see no point to it.
Note that all things in my journal are my opinion, speak if you will, and I am always open enough to listen without prejudice as long as you speak calmly.
If I ever have a problem with what someone has done, I will talk to the person directly, that is my way. I keep it out of public eyes, because if it is out in the open, you never know when somebody is going to wade in with their tuppence worth, and in their misplaced zeal, inflame tensions beyond breaking point.
There are two types of people I refuse to read on my list, the first type is the one who will air a personal issue in a public community. If you have a grievance, put it in your own journal, rather than initiate drama in an inappropriate place. People who do that will be de-friended very damn quickly, because it is the action of a drama seeker.
The second type is the one who believes their way is the only way, and will use any tactics to get the world to follow. They are people who have their minds set, and despite being told they are wrong, with proof, will not admit their mistake. The Zealot too blinded and blinkered by their own belief that the come off as superior and feel it their right to point out any perceived failure in another.
I discovered both types today, and I bade them farewell.
I also defend those who are dearest to me, and while I don't choose between friends often, there are some times when I am offered a no-brainer of a decision and I take it.
And sometimes, you just have to say "Enough"
And yes, I am very hypocritical at times, all people are, to some extent. We have a heart and a mind, and sometimes, the choice you make with your heart is different from the choice you would have made with your mind...
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Date: 2005-12-15 07:23 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-12-15 07:52 pm (UTC)