Question of the Day

[ayoub]

What about someone would earn them your immediate respect?

Comments

[wingswithwar.livejournal.com]

Honesty toward themselves and others no matter how difficult the reality.

Consideration of others and their boundaries.

Respect and protection of their own boundaries.

Kindness.

Courage.

[xjenavivex.livejournal.com]

takes notes

[delphaicdragon.livejournal.com]

Being able to deal with my quirky personality. Seriously. If in the first few mintues of meeting me someone can find amusing my tendency to squeak, giggle, bounce and say outlandish things, that's cool. Even cooler is when they get my references and have enough wit to banter with me. It's hard to think as quick as I do. ;)

[kabandra.livejournal.com]

Being their own person and not apologizing for it. I love unique people who stand out and who are strong.

[the-ravyn.livejournal.com]

The ability to tell it like it is, square shot, no bullshit or beating around the bush...and not make any apologies for it, either.

[fire-fox01.livejournal.com]

Compassion and a willingness to do something most people wont do.

[rowanchey.livejournal.com]

There are two things people can do:

1. Have every reason to be vain, cocky, arrogant, prideful, etc...but remain humble.

2. Those who will defend the weak out of the sheer goodness of their hearts.

[yndy.livejournal.com]

1) the ability to admit when they're wrong
2) the ability to believe that they can be wrong and therefore look more than once at a situation
3) the ability to say "I don't know" when faced with the overwhelming urge to impress someone else by knowing something
4) the ability to know the difference between "honesty" and "cruelty through honesty" and to know when to say something and when to shut the hell up

I could go on...

[crescent-fresh.livejournal.com]

a predilection toward cheese.

[mighty-rontor.livejournal.com]

Short answer: The right vibe.

[stalkings.livejournal.com]

Sorry... I was away from the computer for a week and I lost touch!

Instant respect for me is: HONESTY.

One of my biggest pet peeves is a person that cannot look you in the eyes while they're talking... even about simple things. It gives the impression that they are holding back or not being truthful (which most people are doing so when they exhibit such behavior.)

I think honesty is one of the most important things in life. How can we grow as a person if we cannot be honest about the things we do- even if we are wrong? We cannot possibly learn from our mistakes if we don't take ownership.

A personal experience I'd like to share:

At work I was often left in charge of running our department. I didn't always know what or how to do things. Most of the time, there was no one around to ask questions. On one particular evening, a major issue came up... as usual, there was no one to look to for help. So, I made a decision and acted. I later realized that I had clearly made the WRONG DECISION and that I could be fired.

I went into work the next day expecting for my supervisor to coach me or fire me. It really was a gross mistake. I should have known better. Well, he called me into the office and talked to me. At first, my thoughts were to DENY DENY DENY or make some sort of excuses to save my rear end. I knew though that the only chance I had was to simply tell him the truth. That I wasn't sure how to handle the situation- I made a decision and acted. That I realized later it was terribly wrong and that I would take whatever punsishment was needed to remedy the situation.

Honestly, he said he was shocked. He did not fire me or even write me up. He told me that because I was truthful with him he could respect me- even though I made the wrong decision. He promised to take time out from then on to stick around more to answer questions I had- and he did. I learned from my mistake and kept my job.

If we all were truthful with one another, the world would be a better place!

Ok- enough rambling. LMAO

[eternalxwhisper.livejournal.com]

An obvious demonstration of selflessness.

[ayoub.livejournal.com]

That's a good way...